How Meditation can Help Kids Cope with Sensory Overload

How meditation can help kids cope with sensory overload

Learn how to help kids cope with sensory overload

In a world with constant stressors and pressure on kids, it’s easy to see how some kids feel stressed out by too much sensory stimulation. Whether your child has a sensory processing disorder or struggles with sensory overload from time to time, meditation is a practice that can help them feel grounded, find their inner calm, and help manage their symptoms.

What are sensory processing disorders? 

Sensory processing disorder is the term used to describe the challenges people have relating to environmental stimuli.

Also known as sensory integration disorder, it is characterized by having challenges regulating the senses, as children, and adults, relate to their own bodies or the outside world. Because we are constantly taking in information from all of our senses, children with SPD often struggle in daily life, feeling out of sorts a lot of the time. 

This leads to them often feeling anxious, out of control, and may result in emotional outbursts like tantrums and rages, withdrawal from sensory stimuli, or if they are sensory seeking, always trying to meet their need for sensory input. Children who have sensory processing disorders may also have co-occurring conditions like autism spectrum disorders, ADHD, Down syndrome or obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD).  

Sensory processing disorders look different for every child. They involve differences in the way the child experiences all of the eight senses, and are best diagnosed through consultation with the child’s doctor and a pediatric occupational therapist who has experience with SPD.

What are the characteristics of sensory processing disorders in kids? 

A pediatric occupational therapist (OT) can complete a sensory profile assessment for your child. The sensory profile assessment will give you insight into how your child perceives and responds to sensory input in their life in a variety of environments, like home, in school, the outdoors, etc. 

The assessment may help you understand why your child has certain sensory challenges and provide you with ways to help your child. This guidance is often called a sensory diet, or a treatment plan, and it offers ways to work with your child to help them best address their sensory needs. 

One way to address sensory needs is through mindfulness and meditation. Knowing your child’s sensory profile will help you plan meditation and mindfulness activities that support their abilities to calm themselves in stressful situations. 

Before we look at how mindful practices can help, let’s look at the most common characteristics of SPD. Children with sensory processing disorder may present with one of three common sensory processing disorder categories, or a combination:

Sensory over-responsive

This category presents as a child being highly sensitive to, or avoiding sensory triggers like loud noises, bright lights, scratchy fabrics, etc. (Think the school cafeteria or the mall, and a wool sweater.) 

A child who is sensory over-responsive may: 

  • Hide from loud sounds like sirens, vacuums, leaf blowers, lawn mowers or car horns 
  • Dislike birthday parties, playgrounds full of children, crowded malls or restaurants (think kid-themed restaurants with arcades and gaming) 
  • Prefer dimly lit spaces and no fluorescent lights 
  • Avoid messy play like finger-painting, sandboxes, making mud-pies 
  • Be bothered by certain scents, pleasant or unpleasant 
  • Dislike certain temperatures, taking baths, or going swimming 
  • Become upset with minor injuries, like bruises, cuts, etc. and not like seeing blood
  • Only wear clothing with no tags, seamless socks, and certain fabrics 

Sensory under-responsive

Under-response SPD is typical of child not noticing sensory input in the environment. They may seem fatigued or disconnected, withdrawn or self-absorbed. 

A child who is sensory under-responsive may: 

  • Not notice loud noises like sirens, car horns, leaf blowers, etc.  
  • Seem clumsy and unaware of their surroundings 
  • Be unaware of pain from minor injuries 
  • May not notice if they, or items they touch, are too hot or too cold 

Sensory seeking:

The third subtype often presents as a child frequently seeking sensory stimulation. The child might run, bump into things, jump, touch everything they come into contact with, be overly affectionate, and struggle with other’s personal space and boundaries. 

A child who is sensory seeking may: 

  • Like loud noises like sirens, car horns, etc. or like TV or music volume up very high. 
  • Enjoy bright rooms, colorful rooms, or flickering lights 
  • Prefer foods with lots of flavor and texture 
  • Chew on clothing or objects 
  • Have high pain tolerance 
  • Be in constant motion 
 

While there are 3 categories of SPD, children can present with behaviors from all three categories. 

Additional characteristics common in kids with SPD

  • Anxious in new surroundings/unpredictable environments 
  • Struggle with concentration and focus 
  • Prefer solitary activities instead of attending social events like birthday parties or going to the movie theater
  • Become exhausted in busy environments
  • Have difficulty unwinding at bedtime, struggle with falling asleep, staying asleep, and then getting up the next morning 
  • Have many emotional outbursts over things that seem to be minor, but to them are quite major

 

What are the eight senses that relate to these sensory categories? 

Sensory processing refers to the way our brains process sensory stimuli. Sensory stimuli come to us through our eight senses, and it is usually an automatic and unconscious process. We don’t usually even think about processing the stimuli, it just happens naturally and without putting in any effort. 

For kids with SPD, it does require effort, and it is usually not easy or automatic.  

Visual – Sense of sight. 

Auditory – Sense of hearing. 

Olfactory – Sense of smell. This is often said to be the most powerful sense, especially as it relates to our ability to detect danger in our environment, like a strong chemical odor, or smoke. There is a lot of neurobiology involved with smells. Some scents take you back to comforting memories, like grandma’s cookies, whereas other smells may trigger fear, anxiety, or a trauma response.  

Tactile – Sense of touch. There is a lot involved with the tactile system, including feeling pain, whether we, or an item, is hot or cold, different textures (smooth or rough, wet or dry, ) whether pressure or touch is light or firm. 

Gustatory – Sense of Taste. This refers to many things: the way something tastes, its temperature, and its texture. 

And the three lesser known, but still very important senses: 

Interoception – The sense of being aware of what is going on inside your body like your heart rate or breathing. It relates to whether you feel hot or cold, thirsty, hungry, needing rest, needing to use the bathroom, feel nauseous, itchy, etc. It can also relate to the emotions you are feeling. 

Proprioception – The sense of being aware of your own body and where it is in space. It relates to muscles and tendons and joints. It is the system that allows you to walk without looking at your feet, or hold a spoon and move food into your mouth. This system has a lot to do with how grounded you feel where you are. 

Vestibular – The sense of your body that relates to movement, balance, and coordination which is controlled by the inner ear, or eustachian tubes.

Can kids with sensory processing disorders meditate? 

Kids with sensory processing disorders can absolutely meditate, and it’s really good for them. Meditation has many benefits for kids with SPD. The caveat is that meditation and mindfulness should be presented to them in ways that support the way they relate to the environment. 

As mentioned, it is good to work with your child’s OT to understand their sensory profile. Once you have a plan to work with their sensory needs, you can introduce meditation practices that are best suited for them. Regardless of what sensory challenges your child has, they will find meditation and mindfulness practices that are appealing to them. It’s all about finding what styles work for them.

Benefits of meditation for sensory overload

  • The ability to self-regulate when feeling challenged by environmental stimuli/sensory overload
  • The ability to regulate big emotions like anger, frustration, etc. 
  • Improved adrenaline responses, through breath work, to reduce stress 
  • The ability to relax at bedtime. This can lead to falling asleep faster and sleeping better through the night 
  • Feeling more peaceful and grounded, especially in places they have thought felt unpredictable or scary
  • Being less anxious in all environments 
  • Better focus and concentration
  • The ability to meet their needs for relaxation and stimulation

 

Kids with SPD often find themselves stressed by things that don’t bother others, making them often highly anxious, out of sorts, unable to self-regulate, and full of big emotions that often lead to tantrums, outbursts, and a lot of tears. They may tire easily, withdraw from the world, and struggle to participate in their day to day life. 

This is why meditation can help kids cope with sensory overload. These practices teach kids how to be in the present moment, aware of different environmental stimuli without judgment, and without having to change anything. The “without judgment” and the “without having to change anything” are key components to meditation and mindfulness, and very important skills for kids with SPD to develop.

How to teach meditation to kids with sensory processing disorders

Any meditation practice is suitable for children with SPD, but it is important to make the meditation and the environment aligned with the way the child learns best. Teaching meditation to a child with SPD will greatly depend on the child’s sensory profile. With the input from your child’s OT, you can create a meditation space and meditation practices that best meet their needs. 

The following tips can help you get started

  1. Teach meditation in an environment that is calm and clutter-free. Even if your child prefers a lot of stimulation, you can find ways to bring sensory components into the space without making it cluttered and chaotic.
  2. Consider you child’s environmental needs like room temperature, whether or not to use scent, music, etc.
  3. Fluorescent lights may trigger some children, so when possible, use soft, natural lighting.
  4. Allow kids to use handheld fidget toys or a comfort object. You might want to create a sensory comfort kit with items your child would like to have on hand while meditating.
  5. Use visual supports if they help the child focus, but not if they are distracting.
  6. For auditory sensitivities, consider using a lower voice, softer music, or no music* at all in the meditation.
  7. If the child seeks sensory stimulation like spinning, rocking, swinging, chewing gum, etc., allow them to move while they meditate. There is no rule that says meditation needs to be done sitting still. Meditation can be done in a swing, a hammock, a rocking chair, on a sensory spinning seat, while using a chewy, etc.
  8. Children who are comforted by pressure might want to wear a weighted vest, meditate under a weighted blanket, or while cuddled in a sensory pod.
  9. Many children with SPD, like children with autism, will have a specific area of interest, or a topic that they love to talk about, non-stop. If this is the case, try to find a way to bring this topic into the meditation or mindfulness activity. For example, kids who are interested in dolphins can practice dolphin themed meditations, meditate to ocean waves and visualize swimming with dolphins, or take mindful trips to the ocean, etc. When you creatively make the child’s specific area of interest part of meditation time, they will become more engaged in the practice and likely want to meditate more often.

How to teach mindfulness to kids with sensory processing disorders

Invite your child to develop a sense of mindfulness throughout their day, whether they are at home, outside, in school, or somewhere else. Practice, or model, showing them how to be mindful in a variety of settings. The following are some ways to encourage them to do this: 

Visually 

  • Watch the clouds moving across the sky. Can they notice them making any shapes? 
  • Find something in nature, a leaf, a stone, etc. and focus attention on how it looks, its shape, color, nuances, etc. 
  • Go outside and watch the wind moving through the trees, the varied colors of a sunrise or sunset, or the stars in the night sky.

⭐️ Tip: Want to teach your child visualization? Try listening to Pictures in the Sky

Auditorily 

  • Listen to music. Is it fast or slow, loud or soft? 
  • Ring a bell or a chime. Practice listening to the sound as it fades away, softer and softer until all the noise has stopped.

Olfactory 

  • Place child-safe essential oils on a teddy bear, blanket, or reusable cotton pad. (Citrus, vanilla, peppermint and lavender work well.) See if your child can identify the scent, which scent is stronger, or which scent is their favorite. 
  • Go on a nature walk, or a walk in the neighborhood. What smells can the child notice? Fresh cut grass? Exhaust from a car? Flowers in the wind? 
  • Take a mindful smelling walk. Find a street in a walkable town with a variety of cafes, bakeries, coffee shops, floral shops, etc. Notice all the smells as you stroll through the town.

⭐️ Tip: Up on Peppermint Mountain is a guided story meditation designed specifically to help kids who are feeling overstimulated calm down through the power of scent meditation.

Tactile 

  • Give your child safe worry beads or stringing beads and let them feel the way the beads move along on the string. 
  • Have the child notice the textures, weight, etc. of different objects like a smooth stone, a squishy ball, a bowl of pebbles or gemstones, a sand table. You can also create a sensory box for them as well. Try finger-painting or shaving cream painting, focusing on the feelings of each medium.

⭐️ Tip: Listen to Deer and the Crystal Cave, a guided story meditation where children learn how to practice focus meditation with an object.

Gustatory 

  • Give the child a safe, small piece of food, perhaps a raisin, jellybean or blueberry. Invite them to focus on all the sensations of eating the food with special attention to how the food tastes. 
  • Try the same practice as above, but this time with the child’s favorite beverage. They can notice all the sensations, but particularly focus on the taste. Is it sweet or salty? Hot or cool?

Interoception 

  • Take breaks throughout the day and ask the child to pause and notice how they are feeling. Are they hot or cold? Hungry or thirsty? How do they feel emotionally? 
  • Do a body scan meditation to notice any feelings, discomfort, etc. in the body. Not with the intention of judging, just with the intention of noticing.
⭐️ Tip: Weasel’s Undersea Adventure is the perfect story meditation to teach kids body scan meditation.

 Proprioception 

  • While jumping on a trampoline, have the child notice all the sensations of their feet coming into contact with the trampoline and the feeling of their body in the air. 
  • Have your child try being a tree. If your child is able, have them extend their arms out like tree branches and make them sway like they are blowing in the wind. Notice how this movement feels in their arms and the rest of their bodies.

⭐️ Tip: Introduce your child to mindful movement with Deer’s River Walk

Vestibular 

  • Have a child crawl through a play tunnel, noticing how they feel as they move through the tunnel 
  • If you have a teardrop-shaped, or cocoon swing, allow you child to gently feel different movements like forward and backward, side to side, and circular. Invite them to pay attention to how the different movements feel.

Skills for a lifetime

Meditation and mindfulness give kids with SPD skills to help them navigate childhood and their entire lives with greater peace and calm. With less stress and anxiety, kids with SPD may feel more connected to their senses and the world around them which in turn makes them feel better in whatever environment they are in.  

Wee Meditate teaches meditation and mindfulness to kids with disabilities like Sensory Processing Disorder. In our storybook world, kids learn meditation with Dragon and his forest animal friends. Wee Meditate has content in a variety of lengths and styles to appeal to all children. Start your Wee Meditate subscription and give your child the lifetime gift of meditation.

*All Wee Meditate audios and meditations have an option for background music or no music, so your child can always feel comfortable while meditating.